What most men call “seeking liberation” or “not wanting to be tied down” is really nothing more than avoiding pain. The wounded masculine is a vagrant, meandering through the wilderness, jumping from place to place and woman to woman. He runs all over, searching for himself everywhere except in the mirror.
Commitment is that mirror. Commitment forms the crucible that forces you to face yourself. Men who tell you to avoid commitment are telling you to avoid your demons. And the paradox is that until you face your demons, you will never be free.
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