Most people give soft feedback because they care more about how the conversation feels than about whether the problem gets solved. This is selfish. Another thought on this... A lot of people don't actually want direct feedback; they prefer something softer. When they hear direct feedback, they focus on how it makes them feel and not the substance. If you're focusing on how feedback makes you feel and not its accuracy, you're robbing yourself of the opportunity to get better.
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