Lying clogs much...

Lying clogs much mental bandwidth. It takes processing power to come up with the fabrication, remember it, manage it, act differently, etc. It’s heavy baggage. It wastes so much energy to carry. Truth takes no memory or processing. Just tell it how it is, describe reality aloud.

When you get all that...

When you get all that you wanted, you discover you didn't actually need it. Your life's needs are simple. Joy lies is simple experiences. It's us who complicate things and chase a life of greed.

Focusing on past accomplishments creates obstacles to...

Focusing on past accomplishments creates obstacles to success in the present. If you're still talking about something great you did 20 years ago like it was yesterday, your ego is getting in the way. What you did in the past makes a good story. What you're doing now makes a difference.

Don't make big decisions under the influence of...

Don't make big decisions under the influence of a strong emotion. Avoid doing this especially during the night, when you are already vulnerable and emotional. Big decisions takes time and clarity of mind. So take all the time to gain clarity especially if it's a life changing decision. Wake up the next morning and think if you are feeling the same.

Letting go isn’t about...

Letting go isn’t about forgetting the past – it’s about having the strength to embrace the present and all that is new and different in this day. Happiness doesn’t start with a relationship, a vacation, a job, or money. It starts with your thinking and what you tell yourself every day.

Learn from others' mistakes

Learn from others' mistakes. It's the only way to make your journey better. Don't waste time criticizing the choices of others, instead learn from their choices and apply that knowledge to your journey.

You will go through...

You will go through different phases in life. Your life is a chapter book. Let each just chapter end as it's meant to be. Reflect and keep moving forward. Different phases are like seasons. They are here to take something to give back something. Don't fear the changes, embrace it. Fear won't save you. Face those phases, it'll make you stronger.