What’s Real Depth?

What’s real depth - when it comes to content? Depth isn’t length. Depth isn’t volume. Depth is not design or formatting. Depth is a door to rooms you would have never visited. Depth is a curious, inquisitive exploration of a topic beyond its visible, instantly recognizable traits.

Tears and sweat

Both tears and sweat are salty, but they render a different result. Tears will get you sympathy; sweat will get you change.

Before agreeing to any group decision

Before agreeing to any group decision (or even a personal goal) that everyone seems to want, pause and ask yourself: “Do I actually want this, or am I just afraid to say I don’t?” If the answer is unclear, start the conversation others are avoiding. One moment of honesty can prevent months or years of heading in the wrong direction.

“I’ve got your back”

This is not a promise to be made lightly. It’s not, “I’ve got your back until it becomes difficult or inconvenient for me.” It puts us on the hook, without exception. This is a powerful promise, a commitment that can change the lives of both parties. Don’t do it lightly, but do it. It’s worth it.

People are not rational

People are not rational. They are rationalizing. Once you understand this simple fact, all the oddest human behavior will suddenly make way more sense.

The other kind of magic

We wait and hope for the magic that arrives just when we need it. This is the magic of inspiration, or of good fortune. The magic of opportunities offered and connections made. There never seems to be enough of this sort of magic. The other kind, though, is surprisingly abundant. This is the magic of being able to turn on lights for others. It happens when we cause connection or open doors. It’s the magic that comes from creation, and it’s based on abundance.

How you respond on the bad days

The strong mind finds a way to stay steady ... even when plans fall apart. The strong body finds a way to train ... even when the day doesn’t go your way. The strong relationship finds a way to reconnect ... even when things get rough. In a sense, what matters most is how you respond on the bad days, not the good ones.